The story of the 18-year-old girl sharing is not unique. In many families, both in the countryside and in the city, the patriarch has committed domestic violence, both from violent and repressive behaviors.
However, many mothers, who are unhappy in marriage, are always happy and satisfied with life in front of everyone by keeping a family image for their children and relatives. Only members of the family understand what she suffered.
However, even when she tries to endure to expect me to have a full family, she accidentally brings me fears and misfortunes.
The children who witnessed the mother living in an unhappy marriage, especially older children who appreciate the situation, will feel hurt to know that she has sacrificed her own happiness. because of me.
According to a 2009 National Institutes of Health and American Institute of Medicine report, parental depression is associated with early signs of “difficult” and less confident, even should be separated from society.
Trying to passively passive unhappy marriage to happy children can be a completely false thought. Your child who witnesses your constant day will also feel sad and bring your own thoughts that cause you to live in grief and they will suffer psychological trauma until they grow up. In many cases, the child becomes self-contained and depressed. So you have to hurt yourself and hurt your own children.
To free yourself from life in an unhappy marriage, talk frankly with your partner and try to find a solution to your family’s problems. When you have the courage to share your thoughts and problems, as well as your desires for your partner, circumstances and relationships in the family will improve. The most important thing is to talk to your children, ask your child’s opinion about the life expectancy and how they feel about their parents and family.
You also need to rearrange your life. If you are a housewife and have been at home for so long, you can get acquainted with the simplest new jobs, or work with relatives and friends, spend time cultivating knowledge.
Refer to relatives or professionals for advice on psychosocial relief, job search, child care, and marriage crisis management.
Instead of being self-sufficient in life, be open-minded, live outwardly, participate in social activities, and community.
Take responsibility for yourself and show your children that taking care of yourself and your heart is important so that over time, they will also make adjustments in your life. more positive.